No one can deny that body language plays a crucial role in catching girls attentionand keeping it. Nearly *75%* of signals women send is through body language--so you're not going to find out if she's into you from words alone! Unfortunately, many men miss out on these signals, and thus miss out on the girl. The good news is, if you CAN read a girl's signals, you stand out from the rest of guys, and make yourself all the more attractive! With that said, here are 6 signs that she's not into you, and 10 signs that she is!
BAD BODY LANGUAGE
1. Not making eye contact with youlooking around, eyeing her friends, looking anywhere but at you
2. Legs crossedalways a bad sign. This means shes closing herself off to you
3. Arms crossedThis can convey annoyance and impatience. Definitely a bad sign.
4. Hands on her hipsThis can also convey impatience. Not looking good.
5. Leaning backwardsIts much better when a woman is leaning towards you. If you notice her leaning away from you, keeping her distance, it means youve gotten too close for her comfort and shes not that into you, at least at this point.
6. A weak handshakeDo you shake a girls hands when you meet her? If you do and notice that hers is weak and she is quick to take back her hand, then shes not very impressed.
GOOD BODY LANGUAGE
1. She looks down when you see her and smilesA very good sign. Shes shy but wants you to come over to talk to her.
2. Shes twirling her hair aroundDefinitely into you.
3. Licks her lipsunless you can tell shes screwing with you, this is a very good sign!
4. Open legsOpen legs, open mind. Shes open to hearing more from youand who knows what else.
5. Sideways glanceThe classic Hollywood flirtation, this is a coy, seductive way of showing her interest
6. Fondling a cylindrical object (cigarette, glass, etc.)VERY good sign! And a hint of what she may have in mind for later on in the evening
7. Fondling her shoe (shoe is slight off her foot, twisting her foot in circles)This is that classic shy signal that girls use to display interest.
8. The "leg twine"one leg pressed hard against the other to give the appearance of high muscle tonevery good sign
9. The head tossIf she tosses her hair back over her shoulders, this is definitely a good gesture.
10. Exposed wristsIf shes interested in you, she will gradually display the smooth, soft skin of her wrists to a guy shes interested in. Wrists are actually considered one of the more erotic areas of the bodyso if shes showing you this sexual areago for it!
Hope these tips help you out. Remember, none of this will do you any good if you don't follow up on it! If a girl is showing interest, it's up to you to take the next step and show your attraction BACK to her. Tune in to my next article on what YOU as a man must do to successfully attract female attention, using flirtatious body language. Because it's your turn!
James Brito is the author of "How to Be Irresistible to Women." His years of dating experience and international travel have tutored him in the art of meeting and seducing women the world over. His immersion in international
dating circles brings forth a gritty, no-nonsense approach to dating and developing relationships necessary for the modern single man.
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