The first few dates seem always exciting and nervous with showing your best manner and characters'be polite to each other, follow the rules,'play games by the dating and relationship rules. But many times people don't get the second date, or no more than three times going out. I always believe that meeting a new people is easier than keeping the relationship for long and fresh. Also I believe that getting married is much easier than staying married happily.
Either a woman (or a man) should be looking for information to help her/him to decide whether this particular date is what I call a "Good Man" (or "Good Woman"). This Good person has Four Fundamental Characteristics:
1. good values 2. awareness of what's happening around them 3. a nice personality 4. happy and optimistic
The first impression applies to the first three dates. After the third date you know how to filter the person as a keeper.
What if your date tells you about her bad breakup with her ex, what if your date tells you about her mental problem, talks about her career problems. Look at the following situations that I would find some red flags based on the above characteristics:
? Forgot wallet = not very conscious and aware; perhaps careless ? Reveals dark secret = unhappy; not conscious of inappropriateness ? Says something offensive = bad values or not a nice person
In any of the above three situations, I could easily imagine that a woman's intuition might say, "I don't think this is worth pursuing." Always at least listen to and consider your intuition in making a decision about further dating.
Do you have anything like the above situation? Do you have any similar situation to share with me? How do you know if your date is your keeper even after your date goes bad?
Author: Py Kim Conant
Author Bio:
Py Kim Conant, the author of Sex Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man, Hunter House Publishers. Looking for relationship, dating and sex tips? Visit Py��s website at www.AmericanGeishaHouse.com
