A woman's mindset going into an interaction with a guy, is probably the single most important factor in determining the difficulty of the seduction. Girls will meet lots of guys knowing full well that they are the prize (object of desire) and the guy is there to impress them. And it is 10x harder to succeed at taking things to the physical level if this is the case. You will be in damage control all the way and if you're REALLY good you may get another shot at her. The reason the how-to and when-to questions come up, is because the woman is screening YOU for compatibility with HER. So there is naturally a longer more winding path to get to where you want. But if you manage to reverse this situation beforehand with proper groundwork and frame control, then it will be a lot easier. Touching her will be easy because she wants you to touch her. Connection and rapport will be easy because she will want to connect with you. And getting her back to her place or yours will be a joke as well because she will likely suggest it herself. Get women to put in the work to get you, and stick to your guns. Don't concern yourself with gaming them and figure out how to get them to game you instead. Allow them to suggest get togethers. Stop entertaining them. And when with them relax and don't be goal oriented. If you are at the point where you've put yourself out there enough, it's now time to start looking at things differently. Copyright 2006 Vittorio Norman |
