Women get sexually turned on in a very different way from us guys and it is very CRUCIAL to understand that fact. In general, it takes much longer for women to get to the stage where they're ready to have sex. Just imagine that women have a "Thermostat" button that you have to SLOWLY dial up until it reaches the highest level before she's ready. So with this in mind, I'm going to describe how to sexually turn on your girlfriend or wife in a way that will guarantee amazing sex for you. First, you should prepare a nice warm bath for her. Start by SLOWLY rubbing your hands all over every inch of her body. DO NOT head straight for her erogenous zones like her breasts at this stage (I know, it's hard and the self control will kill you.) But resist that temptation. Remember exactly WHY you're doing this and postpone your gratification for a little bit longer because it's so worth it in the end as you'll see. When you're done with the bath, lay out a fresh towel and after she's dry, you're going to prepare to give her a nice, SLOW massage. If you're not used to giving massages, you could do with getting a couple of books on the subject, just for some ideas, you don't have to become an expert "Masseuse" or anything. You just want to give her a lovely, sensual experience so you can turn her on. Start slowly and gently, running your hands all over her body. You can start with her stretched out on her stomach (with her face down). Just begin to gently stroke and massage the area around her neck and especially all over her back. Some of the most sensitive parts of a woman's body are her neck, back and ears, so massage these areas very carefully. At this point, she may be so turned on that she tries to distract you and get you to start having sex with her right then and there. But DON'T give in, just gently decline and carry on massaging. This will begin to drive her crazy with anticipation. This is a very GOOD thing. But stay patient, trust me, it'll be well worth it in the end. Then at this stage, gently turn her over to the other side where she's now lying on her back and keep on gently massaging her body with very long, very slow, very gentle rubs all the way up and down the whole front area of her body. Try to gently start stimulating the area around her breasts but don't get too close to the nipple area at this point. Always stop just before you touch the nipple. This will increase the anticipation EVEN MORE. Now, you can add another interesting dimension to the seductive teasing: Gently whisper into her ears that she should close her eyes so she can't see what you're physically doing. All you want her to do is just to feel your hands rubbing on her skin. And make sure she doesn't try to "peek" at your work while you're doing it. Believe me, at this point she'll be DYING to burst and "rip you apart" with serious lust. Again, DON'T give inyet! Once you begin to get the sense that she just can't PHYSICALLY take any more of your frustrating teasing, that her sexual "Thermostat" is at the very highest level that it can possibly bethen you can just grab her shoulders, pull her close to you and begin to kiss her. Make sure the kiss is slow and very controlled. Try to slow down the pace because she will be so eager to "ravish" you at this stage. But keep postponing the gratification and make her wait! As you kiss her you should not touch any other part of her body even though she's forcing your hands to every part of her body. Then, very slowly, you can begin to let your hands roam GENTLY all over her body. Now, you can finally give in to your desiresand hers! So all you have to do now is ENJOY IT! I absolutely 100% guarantee that you will have the most amazing, unbelievable sex of your life that night. |
