How long do you think it usually takes (on average) from meeting a girl for the first time to getting laid? A couple of weeks? A month? A few months? A year'? Well, most guys will never imagine it could be done on the same day you meet a girl. These guys probably believe that "nice" girls don't sleep with guys on the first date. They've been brought up all their lives to think this way. If you're one of the guys who still believes this, I don't blame you. It's very difficult for us to change our belief systems, especially if everyone else in society seems to think so too. But I'm here to tell you that this out-dated philosophy is complete RUBBISH! Under CERTAIN CIRCUMSTANCES, most women could easily get "intimate" with a guy they've not known for very long. The first thing you've got to realise with human psychology is this: When people meet you for the very first time, they will believe whatever "image" of yourself you project to them. It's just the way we are as humans. For example, if I met you at a party and while chatting, I took out my phone, typed a text message into it and said that I was just replying to a message from my ex-girlfriend who was arranging a "threesome" in bed with a mutual friend we met last weekyou would immediately believe I was some kind of Stud because you know NOTHING else about me. This principle works in the same way with women. If you meet a woman for the first time and your words or actions show that you EXPECT her to be a "Good girl" and you're the type of guy who's used to taking a girl out on 50 dates before you even kiss her, guess what? She'll ACT THE PART and make you wait. This is the reason why you would see some sad "nice" guy treat a girl like a Princess for a month, taking her out and buying her gifts, and she won't let him kiss herand some "Player" guy comes along, projects the image that he's used to getting laid on the first date, SLEEP WITH HER, and she'll go back to playing little "Miss Good girl" with the nice guy. Trust me, I've known this happen to a lot of guys and it's all because those nice guys project an image where the girl feels the pressure to be a Good Girl and NOT sleep with them so fast. The second principle is this: Stop having the "Date" mentality of expecting to take a girl's phone number and calling her later to ARRANGE a date. You see, once you "ask" a girl out on a date, where she has to dress up, and you take her to some fancy bar or restaurantshe goes immediately into "Miss Good girl" mode. She'll feel that you expect her to be "Respectable" and not get intimate with you THAT NIGHT! So stop making dates a "special" affair. When you meet a girl you want to seduce, say to her (on the same day you meet her), "Hey, what're you doing right now? I'm going to grab a quick cup of coffee before I get back to xxxxx. This way, her guard is totally down and she'll think, "Oh, it's not really a date, it's just a quick coffee." Once you're having coffee, start teasing her, playing with her hair and stuff like that. Now, she's getting more interested. Then say to her, "Actually, I should get off now, but I'm enjoying your companyso walk with me for a few minutes." You see, all you're doing here is taking her from one place to the other doing "date" things but she's not seeing it in that FORMAL way. Just keep prolonging the interaction and if you're lucky you can take her somewhere "private" after a while and she won't feel like she has to play the "Good Girl" role with you. If that's not possible because she's busy, get her number and call her later. But it's always better to try and prolong the interaction as much as possible, projecting the "image" that you're NOT a "dating" kind of guy. |
